The event subject this week is better gender Ever so our company is discussing… a sex we have ever had! We’re joined by Autostraddle blogger, poet, and reporter Dani Janae as we go into some steamy stories with an in-depth conversation with what makes good sex suitable. And we also spend a lot of the time to my sexual hang ups that I may or might not have actually accomplished countless work with this summer!

Arrive your lesbian movie-themed game, remain for your coming.


SHOW NOTES

+
The 200 Most Readily Useful Lesbian+ Movies record
that Christina pulled the video game from.

+ For those who haven’t read Dani’s
Physiology of a Mango
series you truly must.

+
This is basically the essay
I composed concerning the person We explore regarding the event. Its merely already been 2 years but much has evolved!

+ The summer has passed therefore we still stan Olivia Rodrigo. View the
« intense » songs movie
.


Dani:

The pet in addition to puppy were when you look at the room there was cat and dog hair every-where. And, I became surely having an allergic impulse although we were sex. Although climax had been like chef’s kiss. It was the most perfect, perfect experience actually.


Christina:

We ask yourself whether it’s one thing regarding hives that basically included a tiny bit

je ne sais quoi

to that particular orgasmic experience.


Theme song plays


Drew:

This is

Hold off, So Is This a Date?


Christina:


Wait, So Is This a Date?

is an Autostraddle podcast about, you guessed it, online dating.


Drew:

Yay! I love dating. I’m Drew Gregory. I’m an author for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and just basic trans gay person around the net and… I happened to be probably say world, but it’s actually more like la and nyc.


Christina:

I adore this globe trotting homosexual individuality you are dealing with here in 2021.


Drew:

I would like that. Yeah, its for the future.


Christina:

Yeah. I will be your own some other host, Christina Tucker, in addition an author for Autostraddle, deranged loud gay on the web. Merely method of out right here, authorship, becoming gay, doing whatever you can every moment to try and work through this life that we’re living.


Drew:

You are really carrying it out. You’re really working during that life.


Christina:

Honestly, it is all i could perform. That’s all i’ve, oahu is the only choice.


Drew:

I really have respect for the attempt.


Christina:

The attempt to stay?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Yeah. Really, actually courageous of us to also try it. You aren’t completely wrong, you are not incorrect. Could you be thinking about playing some game today, Drew?


Drew:

Oh my Jesus, I’m so thrilled. Cannot hold off to see what you have for me.


Christina:

I’m so grateful you asserted that since you definitely must say yes, for the reason that it’s element of this bargain we’ve developed right here. So you could be familiar with the fact on autostraddle.com, website, we a list of 200 lesbian flicks.


Drew:

I know from it. I might have written it.


Christina:

You could have. What I did is extract an array of 10 of these movies. I held these to the most known 50. I will provide you with the storyline keywords as determined by users on IMDb and you are probably need guess what movie it’s.


Drew:

Okay. I recently desire the audience, anywhere you happen to be, to find out that I’m not likely to pull-up record. I do believe you heard that right, am We let’s assume that’s correct in how I must be respecting the game?


Christina:

I think that is very respectful and I think’s fair. I also kind of depend on that the is certian end up being something that pops into the mind very possible for you, I didn’t get as well left.


Drew:

You will find a terrible mind, but yes, I’m going to you will need to set individuals up for reasonable objectives.


Christina:

Reasonable adequate.


Drew:

Therefore if i actually do very well, it’s love type of hit all of them out, of course, if I don’t do well, they will be like, « Well, she pointed out… » Anyways, continue. Let’s start this.


Christina:

Let us begin. I shall start off with pretty general people and I will get more certain once we go, because a number of them are practically exactly what the film is actually two words. So we’re going to just be sure to start out with a wider experience here.


Drew:

I favor it.


Christina:

All of our first film: medicines will be the basic land term. Manhattan, new york may be the 2nd. Hate criminal activity may be the third.


Drew:

Okay.

It Is All-around Me Personally.


Christina:

Yes, it is! See, I understood you will be capable of this.


Drew:

Great.


Christina:

We positively realized you would certainly be capable of this.


Drew:

In addition, i recently have to try to let folks know this is certainly one of the most underrated lesbian movies, while should see it. And Leisha Hailey in this film happens to be my cellphone back ground for a few years. Therefore simply an enjoyable little fact there regarding people.


Christina:

We like that. Okay, motion picture number 2. « unidentified father, » organ donor, cemetery, loss of child. Oh, she actually is considering.


Drew:

I believe like I should positively have this considering — delay, as yet not known daddy, loss of son, organ donor. Oh,

All About My Mama.


Christina:

Indeed there it’s, see.


Drew:

Another one of my personal favorites.


Christina:

It is extremely exciting to see the things that folks determine tend to be a story keyword that they must pull from all of these flicks. I’m also not checking out some of the people which are merely lesbian because that appears a lot like a gimme.


Drew:

That’s the way I build a lot of the record since if you appear up lesbian films, what you discovered had been the outdated Autostraddle number or some databases that are not very thorough, and so I would really scroll through databases of the key words of lesbian, lesbian kissing, these matters like ladies kissing, these items, in order to find motion pictures in which they can be maybe not looked at as a lesbian movie since they are more fascinating, or slightly much less immediate, and that is the way I discovered many of the flicks that are today regarding record, therefore back to where it started.


Christina:

Tune in, IMDb keywords to arrive useful for all of us continuously. This 1, individuals moved crazy on this one. Therefore just probably review some random terms to you. Hey, whistling, woman, black sporting events bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, on-the-job accident.


Drew:

Working collision? Oh, I Was Thinking I Got it and, really—


Christina:

Colder, in parentheses, the heat.


Drew:

Because initially I happened to be probably state

Foxfire,

but the on-the-job accident switched me personally upwards. On-the-job accident.


Christina:

Are you wanting some more?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Vehicle collisions through a fence.


Drew:

Could it possibly be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?


Christina:

It is really not.


Drew:

Because working collision was a truly awful way of describing that certain with the homosexual since you’re wanting to convert to maybe not gayness, tries to mutilate by themselves or does mutilate on their own. That’d be very rigorous, but I didn’t understand with the IMDb thinkers. Okay, wait, that is fooling myself up.


Christina:

Do you want more from me?


Drew:

Vehicle through a fence. I am sure it’s something which I’m simply not… Yeah, keep going.


Christina:

Regard to a college mortgage. They are thus crazy.


Drew:

Hold off, perhaps you have observed this film?


Christina:

I have come across this movie.


Drew:

Can it be untamed that I am not getting it?


Christina:

Its some crazy. I am able to provide a-year, if you want per year.


Drew:

In the event that you give me per year, We’ll positively obtain it.


Christina:

Okay. 2016 is the year.


Drew:

2016. Okay, tell me the goals.


Christina:

It’s the movie,

Various Girls,

2016.


Drew:

Oh! Yeah.


Christina:

I absolutely thought pickup truck crashes through a fence would get you, but In addition only love they only pulling-out nouns and just being like, « male. » Is what you believe?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Okay.


Drew:

That is a fantastic movie. I must observe that once more.


Christina:

It is. It really is outstanding film.


Drew:

Yeah, it’s a very great motion picture.


Christina:

Okay, our subsequent movie. Kissing whilst having gender.


Drew:

The number one variety of both, maybe, you might say.


Christina:

Seduction, dude ranch.


Drew:

Is it

Desert Hearts?


Christina:

Yeah. So I had been like, « Okay, you have got in order to get that next one. » Others one I was going to offer you ended up being — « nipples » had been the really prominently included. And that I was actually like, « Sure, this is certainly part of that film. »


Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You probably know how there’s all of these irritating men and women online wanting to be Shane. Sorry, I mean, in case you are trying to end up being Shane, I take you. But me personally, my personal frustrating thing is that I’m wanting to end up being Cay. Cay in that flick is like this is certainly which i do believe of because the sort of lesbian that i do want to end up being.


Christina:

Yeah, that is correct, can verify. Okay, are we ready in regards to our next any?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Season—


Drew:

Wait, no, i’ve yet another thing to say about

Desert Hearts.


Christina:

Yes.


Drew:

Following last time I re-watched it on the summer, it kind of delivered me into a little spiral, and that I texted this earlier semi-closeted one who I got sort of begun tentatively willing to go out or date whatever, and that has disappeared for 30 days, and that I had given up on because I do not beg visitors to date me. But i recently ended up being similar, « Okay. » We watched

Desert Hearts

and I was want, « i assume maybe often individuals have their particular internalized whatever. » And I texted her and that I stated, « When we never fulfill, i do believe you’re going to regret it. » And we did satisfy, to ensure’s what

Desert Hearts

is capable of doing for your requirements.


Christina:

Wow, which is a truly effective endorsement.


Drew:

We probably should not have came across. We most likely must have simply allow it end up being. But anyways, progressing, then film.


Christina:

The next movie, metaphysics, scene during orifice credit — what that implies, it’s for you to decide — highschool soccer, Chicago, Illinois.


Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.


Christina:

There you decide to go.


Drew:

Which is another great movie. I prefer that We keep getting amazed through this list that I’d a very powerful submit positioning. It isn’t really my personal ranking, but i did so have a large say within the ranking and I also think it’s great.


Christina:

Yeah. I recently wish to be obvious for your requirements and our very own audience — once more, I selected through the leading 50, thus these are typically great people. From the good people, these are great ones. I Am Aware Drewshould continually say this is exactly a fantastic motion picture after each one, but—


Drew:

They may be excellent motion pictures, all of you should see all of them.


Christina:

All right. Small skirt with pumps.


Drew:

Think it’s great.


Christina:

Cock blocked, mini skirt with footwear.


Drew:

After all, could it be

Blockers?


Christina:

It isn’t. That could be also effortless, i do believe, for

Blockers.


Drew:

I Really Don’t keep in mind any miniskirts, but—


Christina:

Female backside nudity.


Drew:

Okay. Hold off a second. Okay, just what a second. Okay, penis blocked, mini dress, feminine rear nudity.


Christina:

craigslist m4m sexting-hmm (affirmative). Break dance.


Drew:

Could it possibly be

Bound?


Christina:

It isn’t really.


Drew:

No, I would love a rest moving world.


Christina:

I enjoy a rest moving world in

Bound.


Drew:

Some slack moving scene.


Christina:

I’m going to offer you: English girl abroad.


Drew:

English girl overseas? This really is a different one in which personally i think I absolutely need to have it.


Christina:

I’ll must provide a pretty apparent one sooner or later, so as thatwill help.


Drew:

Okay, give myself a clear one.


Christina:

Undercover agent.


Drew:

Is it

D.E.B.S?


Christina:

It isn’t

D.E.B.S.

It really is next to

D.E.B.S.,

variety of movie a good idea. Here is another one, intrigue.


Drew:

Okay, hold off, there’s not many genre movies.


Christina:

You can findn’t, that’s true.


Drew:

Undercover agent. Well, possibly they are utilizing the phase, can it be

The Handmaiden?


Christina:

It’s not.


Drew:

Okay, I didn’t think-so. Undercover broker.


Christina:

Would you like your year?


Drew:

I thought that… Certain.


Christina:

The year is actually 2017.


Drew:

Undercover representative.


Christina:

I’m thus sorry. You’re going to feel therefore foolish as I state the title of your one.


Drew:

Oh no.


Christina:

I am truly sorry about this, but that is kind of just the way the cookie crumbles.


Drew:

Oh, it’s

Carol.


Christina:

No, it isn’t

Carol.


Drew:

No, it claims 2015.


Christina:

Yes, I know that. It isn’t

Carol.


Drew:

But there is an undercover — the man, that’s where I was thinking. Okay, what is it? How does it make me feel foolish?


Christina:

Its

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.


Drew:

Oh, that is during the top 50?


Christina:

It really is. I know.


Drew:

Oh, okay.


Christina:

All right. Offering four a lot more, you ready?


Drew:

I really don’t think that silly because that one I… I mean, i believe

Atomic Blonde

is actually fun, but I don’t think it is great. That could not within my personal top 50. I do want the world to know that I’m sure that

Carol

arrived on the scene in 2015. My head damage. I recently wish the planet to understand that. Anyways, continue.


Christina:

The planet today knows that, the record has-been shown. All righty: bistro, sense of scent, novelist, mention of the a hamburger, mention of the Larry King, predicated on memoir, alcoholic, theft, lady wears eyeglasses, residing alone, damaging research.


Drew:

The mention of the Larry King is truly—


Christina:

Its an extremely weird one.


Drew:

Mention of the Larry King, damaging evidence.


Christina:

Cat.


Drew:

Oh, will it be

Could You Actually Ever Forgive Me?


Christina:

Really.


Drew:

I needed to redeem me. I became really in a slump indeed there.


Christina:

You nailed it. I believe you have truth be told there, I think you absolutely had gotten truth be told there. Fine, three a lot more, our very own leading three. I think these ones would be simple for you because I’m sure you.


Drew:

Great, fine, well…


Christina:

I know, but i am claiming, are you ready?


Drew:

Okay, yeah.


Christina:

Psychological state, medication overdose.


Drew:

Could it possibly be

Foxfire?


Christina:

No. Photographer.


Drew:

Oh,

Larger.


Christina:

There we get. Tattoo, girl group.


Drew:

Is it

Foxfire?


Christina:

Yeah.


Drew:

Oh, I’m sure

Foxfire.


Christina:

I found myself like, « Oh, she is going to only hold speculating

Foxfire

until I just give her

Foxfire. »


Drew:

The key is the fact that i enjoy

Foxfire

and I hold willing to think of

Foxfire.


Christina:

After all, whomst in our midst?


Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.


Christina:

All right. That One, one of these is—


Drew:

This is actually the last one?


Christina:

This is actually the final one. This can be our very own final any. Church, assertion, family members interactions.


Drew:

Will it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?


Christina:

It isn’t really.


Drew:

Will it be

But I Am a Cheerleader?


Christina:

Really, yes.


Drew:

Indeed. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Article.


Christina:

Jokes on jokes. So that was the game i am phoning, How Well Does Drew Know Lesbian Movies???


Drew:

I enjoy exactly how great we are picking out names for the games.


Christina:

Yeah, that it is mortifying that we also penned that from inside the name of a Bing Doc, that was I thinking? That doesn’t even look fantastic within my Bing Docs.


Drew:

I’d an enjoyable experience and I also’m really glad that i eventually got to inform all of the listeners about all the flicks which they should see. And we’ll place the number inside tv show notes.


Christina:

Completely.


Drew:

I would point out that record happens to be at a location in which I think you’ll get some thing out of enjoying all 200 movies. The first type of the list, there was clearly some things on there that I happened to be much less pleased with. There ‘s still stuff i believe that I really don’t individually but I think that as a whole, there’s a certain quality-control next most recent change that I feel extremely pleased with and that I believe they are all really worth seeing.


Christina: